A vision board is a tool to help clarify, manifest, and maintain focus on specific life goals. It’s a visual representation of images that represent whatever you want to be, do, feel, or have in your life. It uses the law of attraction to turn what once seemed like an “ideal life” to become your reality. When you continue to give your attention to the things you want with a clear visualization of them, your brain sends signals to the rest of your body to to complete the action. We’re also wired for repetition, so placing your vision board in a spot you see every day, you train your mind, body, and spirit, to truly manifest the things you want.
STEP 1 – GATHER YOUR SUPPLIES
The materials you’ll need to create a vision board include:
Something to attach images to, such as a blank notebook, poster board, cork board, etc.
Something to affix the images such a glue, clips, or pins
Magazines/books that can be cut up
Color printer for printing images found online
Colored paper or embellishments to add personal touches
Scissors
STEP 2 – CONNECT TO YOUR VISION
Think about your ideal life and what that looks like. What is the environment like? What do you look like? How are you feeling? Start making a list of goals you want to reach, places you want to go, and motivational affirmations that represent how you want to feel. Reflect on all areas of your life including your career, relationships, mindset, family, finance, education, health, and personal growth. Write it all down.
Here’s a list of possible questions to ask yourself when making your list:
In what ways do you want to develop your career? Do you want to start a business? Get a promotion? Switch career fields? Go back to school?
How can you modify to improve your relationships with the people you surround yourself with? Are you looking for love? Do you want to break free of a toxic relationship? Do you wish to take your current relationship to the next level?
Are there any negative thinking habits you want to overcome? Do you have self-doubt? Are you insecure, jealous, or envious about someone or something? Do you have fear, shame, or guilt stuck inside of you?
Are you looking to make amends with family members? Do you want to grow your family? Do you want to do more of something to strengthen your relationships?
What are some financial goals you wish to meet? Do you want to reach financial freedom by paying off your debts? Create a passive income for yourself? Save more? Make X amount of money?
Do you want to advance in your education? Like go back to school? Learn something new? Broaden your skill sets?
What are some changes you can make to promote a healthier lifestyle? Eat cleaner? Exercise more? Invest in your mental health?
Is there something you wanted to do but were afraid to try? What do you most enjoy doing? What are some activities you can incorporate into your self-care routine?
***When answering these questions, it’s important to remember to get super specific in the end goal. You’ll want to be extremely clear when displaying the things you want.
STEP 3 – COMPILE YOUR IMAGES
Cut out photos from magazines, books, and online that speak to you and represent each of your intentions that you just listed out. Find images and words that resonate most with your goals. If you don’t find exactly what you’re looking for, get creative and make your own image or even just write it down on colorful paper.
STEP 4 – BUILD YOUR BOARD
Make a collage out of the photos you compiled and attach it to your board. You can keep it super simple with a few strong images or cover every square inch of your board. There’s really no rules to building your board. Allow yourself to relax and let it flow.
STEP 5 – MANIFEST IT
Find the perfect location in your home or office for your board where you’ll see it all the time. Make sure you’re constantly aware of these images and putting in the work to reach these goals. As you come up with new intentions, feel free to add to your board as needed. Your vision board should be a flexible and fluid representation of your desires as they shift throughout your journey.
straight up savage, yet lighthearted astrology drunk personality memes for those who aren’t afraid to take themselves too seriously.
DRUNK ARIES BE LIKE …
+TALKS IN THEIR OUTSIDE VOICE AND LOWKEY NEEDS TO SFTU + MOST LIKELY TO START A FIGHT + “HOES DON’T GET COLD” + ALWAYS DOWN TO CHALLENGE YOU TO A DRINKING GAME + WAKES UP THE NEXT DAY WITH ALL KINDS OF MYSTERIOUS BRUISES
DRUNK TAURUS BE LIKE …
+ WAY TOO HAPPY AND TELLS EVERYONE THEY LOVE THEM + MOST LIKELY TO FALL UP THE STAIRS + THAT ONE FRIEND THAT LAUGHS AT EVERYTHING + PROBABLY LEFT THE PARTY EARLY TO GO FIND FOOD + “I SWEAR I’M NOT THAT DRUNK”
DRUNK GEMINI BE LIKE …
+ HAPPY ONE MINUTE, SAD THE NEXT, ANGRY FOR A LIL’ BIT, BORED AF, THEN HAPPY AGAIN + “ACCIDENTALLY” SHARING PEOPLE’S SECRETS + SAYS “I LOVE YOU” TO EVERYONE + LOUD AS HELL + PROBABLY HAVING A HEART TO HEART WITH SOMEONE
DRUNK CANCER BE LIKE …
+ TWERKING ON THE TABLE WHEN YOU WALK IN .. CRYING SOMEWHERE 2 HRS LATER + CUDDLING WITH STRANGERS + ALWAYS DOWN FOR ANOTHER SHOT + GIGGLES AT LITERALLY ANYTHING + CREEPING ON IG STORES ON THEIR SECOND SECRET ACCOUNT
DRUNK LEO BE LIKE …
+ GETS HELLA TURNT UP + ACCIDENTALLY” CREATES A LOVE TRIANGLE THROUGHOUT THE NIGHT + THE ONE THAT TAKES ONE FOR THE TEAM AND FLIRTS W/ THE BOUNCER TO GET EVERYBODY IN + FIRST ONE ON THE DANCE FLOOR + OVERSHARES ON INSTAGRAM STORIES, THEN REGRETS IT IN THE MORNING
DRUNK VIRGO BE LIKE …
+ SILENTLY JUDGES ALL THE OTHER DRUNK PEOPLE + NEVER DRUNK ENOUGH + FILMS FRIENDS BEING STUPID SO THEY CAN EMBARRASS THEM TOMORROW + THE FIRST ONE TO WANT TO GO HOME + PREACHING TO THEIR GIRLS THAT MEN AIN’T SHIT
DRUNK LIBRA BE LIKE …
+ ARRIVES TO THE PARTY WITH ONE GROUP AND LEAVES BEING FRIENDS WITH ANOTHER + DISAPPEARS TO GO HOOK UP WITH SOMEONE + GETS FREE DRINKS, THEN RUNS AWAY + MOST LIKELY PASSED OUT IN THE BATHROOM + MAKES BRILLIANT PLANS THAT THEY FORGET THE NEXT DAY
DRUNK SCORPIO BE LIKE …
+ SENDS DRUNK SELFIES TO BAE + ALWAYS DTF + TURNS INTO A FIESTY ‘LIL THING + PROBABLY GOT KICKED OUT + DRAFTS A TEXT TO THEIR EX THEY KNOW DAMN WELL THEY SHOULDN’T SEND
DRUNK SAGITTARIUS BE LIKE ..
+ PEER PRESSURING YOU TO TAKE THE SHOT THEY JUST POURED FOR EVERYONE + ASKS “WHAT’S THE NEXT MOVE?” AT 2AM + ALWAYS THE ONE FRIEND YOU CAN’T FIND + BUYS ENDLESS ROUNDS OF DRINKS AS IF MONEY HAS NO MEANING + ALREADY MAKING PLANS FOR THE NEXT TIME THEY’RE GOING OUT
DRUNK CAPRICORN BE LIKE ..
+ DENIES THAT THEY’RE DRUNK UNTIL THEY FIND THEM PASSED OUT IN A BUSY + SHARES THEIR INNERMOST FEELINGS + WILL SAY WHAT THEY WANT W/ #NOFILTER + ENDS UP DRINKING WAY MORE THAN THEY SHOULD BC THEY CAN’T SAY NO TO SHOTS AND DRINKING GAMES + MOST LIKELY TO WAKE UP IN SOMEONE ELSE’S BED
DRUNK AQUARIUS BE LIKE ..
+ THE ONE WHO ENDS UP FACE DOWN AND SPRAWLED OUT ON THE FLOOR + MOST LIKELY TO LOSE ALL THEIR SHIT + GOOD GIRL GONE BAD + MAKES A BEST FRIEND IN THE RESTROOM + REALLY DOESN’T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT HOW WEIRD THEY’RE ACTING – THEY JUST TRYNA HAVE FUN
DRUNK PISCES BE LIKE ..
+ THE FIRST ONE TO BLACK OUT + CLUMSY AF + DOWN FOR A SPONTANEOUS ADVENTURE + LOST IN THEIR OWN WORLD + MOST LIKELY THE ONE TO MAKE OUT WITH A STRANGER
A mantra is a word or sound repeated to aid concentration in meditation. It is a positive affirmation that is repeated to one self for the purpose of motivation or encouragement. A statement or slogan used in repetition to transform thoughts into reality. Here’s a mantra for the month of December for each Zodiac sign.
ARIES DECEMBER MANTRA
“I let go of anything or anyone that no longer drains my energy.”
TAURUS DECEMBER MANTRA
“I accept myself as I am in the moment while simultaneously looking forward to growth.”
GEMINI DECEMBER MANTRA
“I take this day one breath at a time. I live this life one day at a time. In this way I am free.”
CANCER DECEMBER MANTRA
“I am constantly creating new memories with the people I love.”
LEO DECEMBER MANTRA
“I listen to my intuition as it guides me in my next direction.”
VIRGO DECEMBER MANTRA
“I welcome new opportunities and adventures to grow emotionally, mentally, & spiritually.”
LIBRA DECEMBER MANTRA
“Every decision I make is the right one for me.”
SCORPIO DECEMBER MANTRA
“I am so focused on my goals that it is impossible for anyone to throw me off course with their negativity.”
SAGITTARIUS DECEMBER MANTRA
“I release what no longer serves me, easy and effortlessly.”
CAPRICORN DECEMBER MANTRA
“I am patient with my process. Everything is unfolding in perfect timing.”
AQUARIUS DECEMBER MANTRA
“I am confident in who I am & my abilities.”
PISCES DECEMBER MANTRA
“I live in the present, never dwelling on the past, & take action to ensure a wonderful future.”
A mantra is a word or sound repeated to aid concentration in meditation. It is a positive affirmation that is repeated to one self for the purpose of motivation or encouragement. A statement or slogan used in repetition to transform thoughts into reality. Here’s some mantras for the month of December.
DECEMBER MANTRAS
I attract endless abundance with my gratitude.
I allow myself to grow and transform. I am aligned with the energy of growth.
I am strong because of everything I have been through.
I claim what is mine and let go of what is not.
I reflect on the goodness of this past year.
As the New Year approaches, I release all negative thoughts & feelings. I welcome exciting new changes, new adventures, and new opportunities to grow.
Many of us feel pressured to provide and ‘prove’ our love for others in a strictly material way, but gift-giving is so much more than just spending money. If done with positive intentions, it can provide a lasting emotional effect on you and your loved ones. A gift with meaning behind it is worth so much more than without. Based on each Zodiac sign, I curated a gift guide in hopes of helping you shop mindfully this Holiday season.
Aries is ruled by Mars, the planet of outward activity and passion. Those under the Aries sign are adventurous, energetic, and spontaneous. They are never afraid of a challenge and are always craving new experiences with their high energy and thirst for life. Aries is a sign of action and impulse, so any gift that saves time or allows them to physically do something, whether it be outdoors or travel-related, will be appreciated. Try to find a gift that is exciting and intriguing for this sign because they get bored easily and has zero time for BS.
Taurus is ruled by Venus, the planet that governs love, beauty, and money. This pretty much means that your Taurus friend is bad and boujee. They have exquisite taste and appreciates gifts that are thoughtful and practical. Taureans enjoy relaxing in serene environments, surrounded by soft sounds, soothing aromas, and succulent flavors. Anything that’s luxe and has a nice aesthetic would be perfect for this sign.
Gemini is ruled by Mercury, the planet associated with all forms of communication and the in-flow and out-flow of intelligence. Represented as twins, Geminis are always juggling many things at once and are kind of all over the place, so shop for things that can help them stay organized. Their adventurous side sees them constantly looking to try new things and they love to stay up to date with the latest technology and gadgets. The Gemini has a track record of getting bored easily, so maybe a bunch of little gifts rather than one big gift that will keep them occupied would be nice.
Cancer is ruled by the Moon, the planet responsible for the ebbs and flows of human emotion. The moon influences how we feel and as we all know, Cancer’s can be moody AF. Something with sentimental value that connects to a person, a memory, or their interests will really touch their heart. They’re also the sign of home and domestic affairs, so things that make them feel safe and secure (#cuddleseason) are great.
Leo is ruled by the Sun, that represents the Self, one’s way of being in the world. This sign has a lust for life and loves the finer things. One mission of Leo is to radiate a concentrated sense of Self and they do that by being well-versed in art, creativity, beauty, & fashion. They are natural-born leaders who bask in the sunlight and always ahead of the crowd, so a lot of the things they own already are dope AF. Remember, presentation is everything for Leos and the more extravagant, the better. Shop for rare, one-of-a-kind, statement-making pieces that they can show off on any occasion.
Virgo is ruled by Mercury, the planet that represents the mind and intellect. One of Virgo’s strongest abilities is to take in a wealth of information, and pick out only what’s important and useful. They are extremely productive, efficient, and are most likely the ones stress cleaning at 1AM. They’re not huge fans of impractical gifts, so make sure the things you get them have a specific long-lasting purpose because they don’t like being wasteful.
Libra is ruled by Venus, the planet of beauty and love. Libras love to be surrounded by art, culture, and beauty in a soft, harmonious environment. They’re the sign of relationships and partnerships, so a gift that they can use with others would make them happy. Libras can also be pretty focused on their appearance, which is why they’re always the best dressed in the room. Anything in the realm of beauty, makeup, or fashion would be great and when all else fails, you can never go wrong with a gift card to satisfy their indecisive ass.
Scorpio is ruled by two planets, Mars and Pluto. Mars is associated with self-initiative and self expression that gives Scorpio an overwhelming need to be self-made, whereas Pluto is linked to psychic energy where intuition leads a lot of Scorpio’s decision making. Scorpio is known to have a complex nature and being mysterious as hell, but they are highly passionate individuals who appreciate ambiguity and addicted to inner-growth and transformation. When choosing a Scorpio gift, look for things that are intriguing, secretive, and alluring. Stay with dark hues and muted tones and things that will aid in their constant metamorphosis in life.
Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, the planet of faith and optimism. Jupiter is the planet of good vibes, good luck, and big fortune. Things tend to unexpectedly work out for this sign bringing in continuous abundance and opportunity. Sagittarius is a positive-thinking sign with a quest for freedom – meaning they can’t be tied down for nothin’. They are free-spirited, full of energy, and have a desire to explore, whether it be through travel or learning something new. Items that are travel related would be a nice gift for this sign because of their built-in desire to expand outside what is known.
Capricorn is ruled by Saturn, the planet that represents responsibility, hard work, and determination. Capricorn has the desire to climb higher and higher in every walk of life and they sure as hell come out on top because of their patient and disciplined nature. Capricorns want a gift that has a use or a purpose, especially something that will contribute to their journey to success. Their sign is also associated with status and recognition, so something that they can show off and be proud of is a plus.
Aquarius is ruled by Uranus and Saturn. Uranus is the planet of freedom and revolutionary vision and Saturn is the planet of limitation and restriction. Aquarians have a somewhat rebellious nature and are spontaneous, unique, and forward-thinking. They are very social both online and off and have a special charisma that makes everyone want to be their friend (#bffgoals). They lead without even realizing and full of surprises. Aquarians are ultra-modern and always into the latest gadget or concept, so electronics are a go-to gift category for this sign. Also, anything that allows them to express their bold and energetic personality would be perfect.
Pisces is ruled by Neptune and Jupiter. Neptune represents the universal ocean of oneness with all beings and Jupiter is the planet of faith, positivism, and optimism. As water signs, Pisces aren’t concerned with the material realm as much as the deep emotional and sentimental value of an item or concept – meaning they appreciate the thought and intention behind something rather than a materialistic item. They are extremely creative and artistic, highly in-tune with their emotions, and usually living in their own world. Gifts that support their craft and things that can relate to their innate attraction toward all things escapism is perfect for this sign.
Every zodiac sign has a ruling planet or two, which adds a dimension to its qualities. In this set of zodiac posts, we dive into each sign’s tendencies in love & relationships.
ARIES IN LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS
+ DOES NOT PLAY GAMES AND KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT THEY WANT + RELATIVELY AGGRESSIVE & DOMINEERING + LOOKS FOR A CONFIDENT & EQUALLY FIESTY LOVER + NOT AFRAID TO TELL YOU HOW THEY FEEL + LOVES LITTLE COMPLIMENTS TO MAKE THEM FEEL IMPORTANT + CAN NEVER BE TAMED, SO DON’T EVEN TRY
When it comes to love and relationships, Aries value transparency because they do not play games and know exactly what they want. They can be relatively aggressive and domineering partners, but in a genuine manner which is hard to find fault with. They don’t want weak partners and are attracted to people that can challenge them to match and maintain the same energy they bring to the table – a confident and equally fiesty lover.
Aries are not afraid to tell you how they feel, whether it be when they are jealous or bored, so don’t be surprised when they take the direct approach to confrontation. Always keep them on their toes with excitement and adventure, surprise them with little compliments to make them feel important, and NEVER try to tame them. As long as there’s plenty of spice and excitement, the relationship will be strong and long lasting.
TAURUS IN LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS
+ THE MOST SENSUAL SIGN. CONNECTS BEST VIA PHYSICAL SENSATIONS + THE WAY TO THEIR HEART IS THROUGH THEIR STOMACH + LOOKS FOR SOMEONE WHO IS LOYAL & TRUSTWORTHY + BEST CUDDLE BUDDIE + DOES NOT LIKE TO BUDGE. ONCE THEY’VE MADE UP THEIR MINDS, IT’S SET + LIKES TO TAKE THEIR SWEET ASS TIME BEFORE TRULY COMMITTING
When it comes to love and relationships, Taurus value security and stability. A Taurus love requires patience. They usually take their time declaring their love and needs to make sure that their feelings and the other person’s feelings are strong enough before taking the next step.
They’re looking for trustworthy people who are loyal and can understand their emotions. Being the most sensual sign in all of the Zodiac, Taurus loves to use their senses of touch, smell, and taste to get pleasure, whether through food or physical sensation. They possess a keen eye for aesthetics and are highly attracted to someone who’s very well-put-together.
Taurus strongly dislikes change. Although they may be slow to make up their mind, once they make a decision they are fixed and it will be difficult to change the path they have chosen. They’re also not the most demonstrative sign when it comes to love. You probably won’t receive declarations of love through flowers and small gifts, but more with physical expressions like hugs or holding hands.
GEMINI IN LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS
+ NATURALLY FLIRTATIOUS, DO NOT EXPECT THEM TO STOP BEING FRIENDLY TO PEOPLE BC THEY DO NOT TOLERATE POSSESSIVE PARTNERS + LOOKS FOR SOMEONE WHO CAN KEEP UP WITH THEIR LIFESTYLE & ADJUST ACCORDINGLY + YOU GOTTA BE ABLE TO TALK THE TALK BEFORE YOU WALK THE WALK + THEY VALUE HONEST & OPEN COMMUNICATION + BE PREPARED FOR OCCASIONAL VERBAL SPARRING FOLLOWED BY INTENSE MAKING UP + IF YOU’RE NOT CUTTING IT, THEN … THANK YOU, NEXT
When it comes to love and relationships, Geminis value good listeners and conversationalists. Most of their most promising relationships are likely to emerge naturally from among their wide circle of friendships. The Gemini is looking for someone who can keep up with their lifestyle and adjust accordingly. They move and talk a mile a minute and are constantly on the go.
Be sure to remember that a Gemini will not be quick to commit, as this means being tied-down and losing much needed freedom. You’ll need to be interesting enough to them to hold their attention and always remember to communicate. Geminis want honest and open communication in relationships. They don’t like secrets, are impressed with intelligence, and extremely adventurous. Once they find the right person, life will take on a new experience mentally entertaining the Gemini beyond measure.
Be prepared to meet lots of new people and do not expect them to stop being friendly with other people because it’s in their nature to be friendly and they can get quickly tired of possessive partners. Also, don’t be surprised if there’s occasional verbal sparring followed by intense making up because they hate being bored and like to spice it up every once in a while.
CANCER IN LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS
+ THE ALL-IN TYPE – EITHER YOU’RE 100% IN THE RELATIONSHIP OR YOU’RE NOT + PRONE TO GIVING THEIR ALL WITH THEIR SENSITIVE & CARING NATURE + LOOKS FOR SOMEONE WHO IS ABLE TO TEND TO THEIR EMOTIONAL NEEDS + LOYALTY IS EVERYTHING + ASPIRES TO FEEL SAFE & SECURE IN ALL AREAS OF LIFE, ESPECIALLY IN THEIR HOME + HIGH-KEY TURNS INTO A HERMIT CRAB WHEN THEY’RE UPSET
When it comes to love and relationships, Cancerians value an all-in type of mindset where you’re either 100% in the relationship or you’re not. They’re prone to giving their all with their sensitive and caring nature once they are convinced that you’re down for them. Cancerians are looking for someone that they can trust to let their walls down. Someone who is able to tend to their emotional needs and most of all loyal to them.
Emotional security is extremely important for a Cancer. They aspire to feel safe and secure in all areas of life, especially in their home. When they get depressed or upset for any reason, they seek retreat within the emotionally safe environment they have built for themselves – similar to a hermit crab.
The most difficult aspect of dating a Cancer is getting through their tough exterior. They rarely take the direct approach, so you’ll need to make them feel comfortable enough to share their deep feelings. A slow, steady, and consistent pace is vital, as they will need to trust you completely before they let their guards down and make sure to be accountable and create equality in the relationship for it to thrive.
LEO IN LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS
+ THEY TELL YOU EXACTLY WHAT THEY WANT & HOW THEY WANT IT + VALUES THE CONCEPT OF A “POWER COUPLE” + NEEDS TO FEEL SPECIAL AND UNIQUE THROUGH LOVE & ADMIRATION FROM THEIR PARTNER + IS BORED WHEN THINGS GET TOO COMFORTABLE + WILL ALWAYS GO ABOVE & BEYOND TO MAKE YOU HAPPY + ONCE YOU’VE BEEN LOVED BY A LEO, YOU’LL EVER FORGET IT
When it comes to love and relationships, Leos value the concept of a “power couple” and think of their partners as an extension of their self. They want an equal and have a need to be proud of the person they are with.
Despite their bold strength and extremely forward and self-assertive identity, Leos are very sensitive and need nurturing to truly blossom. A Leo needs to feel special and unique through lots of love and admiration from their partner. They require a lot of attention and like to feel that they’re the center of your world. They also need their relationships to be exciting at all times, so don’t let things get too comfortable. Keep it passionate and interesting.
This sign enjoys the beauty around them and will appreciate the beauty you bring to their life. They notice the little things and will always reciprocate. Leos will go above and beyond to make their loved one happy and also expect this in return. Once you’ve been loved by a Leo it is unlikely you will ever forget the experience.
VIRGO IN LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS
+ THEY HATE MIND GAMES, SO BE STRAIGHT UP + ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS + WILL MAKE YOU LAUGH LIKE NO OTHER + ALWAYS PUTS OTHERS BEFORE THEMSELVES + NEEDS SPACE TO DO THEIR OWN THING + MOST LIKEY TO HAVE A CHECKLIST OF HIGH FUCKING STANDARDS THAT ARE ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TO MEET, SO GOOD LUCK
When it comes to love and relationships, Virgos value routine and are notoriously judgmental. Virgos can be very picky and will take time to find a partner because of their high standards and perfectionist mindset. However, once Virgos give their heart, they give everything. They put everyone else before themselves and are always trying to improve or make a situation better. They seek adventure and are very charming with clever jokes. Virgo looks for a partner who can encourage their wild side, but a good work ethic is equally attractive.
Virgos command honesty from their partner and hate mind games, so they expect you to say what you mean and mean what you say, just as they do. They have no problem ranting about their feelings, good or bad, due to their passionate nature. Usually by the time you hear what’s bothering them, it can come out in an explosive way because they’ve been bottling it up for so long, so give them a safe space to let them say their peace and then help them move forward.
They’re also super sociable and love to be around people, but are also fiercely independent and like to do things on their own. They need an equal balance of time with you and time alone, so be sure to give them the freedom they need to do their own thing.
LIBRA IN LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS
+ MASTERS AT SEDUCTION ONCE THEY’VE SET THEIR EYES ON YOU + THEY JUST LOVE, LOVE + DRAWN TO PEOPLE WHO PLAY HARD TO GET + LOVES SPONTANEITY TO KEEP THEM ON THEIR TOES + DOES NOT TOLERATE INSECURE PARTNERS + AVOIDS CONFLICT AT ALL COSTS, BUT DAMN GOOD AT ARGUING
When it comes to love and relationships, Libras values peace and harmony. They don’t like to be alone and are happiest when functioning in a union and give their all to their partner, doing everything in their power to please them. They’re romantic, soft-hearted, and just love, love. Libra is very loyal when committed and will stand by your side no matter what.
Because of their indecisiveness and crave for partnership, they may rush into an emotional relationship before they’re ready for it and find themselves unable to get out of it because they don’t want to hurt the other person’s feelings. They also tend to avoid conflict at all costs, but are damn good are arguing their point.
Libras are drawn to people who play hard to get and that can turn them on not only physically, but mentally. You need to be able to hold their attention and have an equally high self-confidence to not be bothered by their friendliness to everyone they encounter. It impresses them when you’re independent, can make them laugh, and can play up your natural beauty.
It’s important for Libra to become an equal partner and realize that they aren’t solely responsible for the other person’s happiness – and vice versa. Try to be spontaneous with Libra and create situations where there’s no way for them to be indecisive and always make them feel attractive and desired.
SCORPIO IN LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS
+ SOUL CONNECTIONS ARE PRECIOUS + DEMANDS HONESTY, WILL SETTLE FOR NO LESS + IF THEY WANT YOU, THEY’LL HAVE YOU + LOOKS FOR PEOPLE WHO CAN STAND CONFIDENTLY ON THEIR OWN, GIVING THEM FREEDOM TO THRIVE + INSTINCTS OVER EVERYTHING + ONE OF A KIND ENERGY THAT’S HIGH-KEY JEALOUS & POSSESSIVE, BUT ONLY BECAUSE THEIR LOVE FOR YOU IS SO INTENSE
When it comes to love and relationships, Scorpios values honesty and passionate energy. The ideal relationship for a Scorpio is one that goes the distance emotionally, spiritually, and sexually. Scorpios are driven by the desire to lose themselves fully with their partner and it’s not easy to be deemed worthy. If they want you, they’ll use their magnetism to pull you near.
They are all about deep soul-diving and allured by intense conversation and a genuine personality. Always listen to them attentively, be loyal and faithful, and never lie to a Scorpio, as they will call you out – real quick. They look for people that can stand confidently on their own sometimes, giving them freedom to thrive. They are in fact pretty sensitive beings, even if they don’t show it on the outside, so if they open up to you then you know you’ve made the cut.
Beware of Scorpios jealous and possessive tendencies. Scorpios love so deeply and are highly sensitive to betrayal. They’re not so quick to forgive once their sensitive feelings have been compromised. This sign needs someone who can hold their ground and keep them guessing because Scorpios are never boring and always in seek of a good mystery.
SAGITTARIUS IN LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS
+ SLOW TO COMMIT, BUT LOVES THE CHASE + LOOKS FOR SOMEONE WHO IS JUST AS AMBITIOUS AS THEM & A PARTNER TO SUPPORT THEIR DREAMS + ALWAYS WANTS TO BE TOLD THEY’RE RIGHT, EVEN IF THEY’RE NOT + ULTIMATE PARTNER IN CRIME – WILL BE DOWN FOR YOU NO MATTER WHAT + GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR, DIRTY MIND, & A BEAUTIFUL HEART + WILL TELL IT HOW IT IS WITH NO FILTER, #SORRYNOTSORRY
When it comes to love and relationships, Sagittarius value freedom and adventure. Quick to initiate, Sagittarius hold high ambitions and aren’t afraid to go after what they want. They look for someone who is just as ambitious as them and a partner to support their dreams. Sagittarius tend to be hard to pin down at first because they are enjoy change and always keen to mix things up, but once they’re serious about you, they are extremely loyal and committed. Loving a Sagittarius will be one hell of an adventure with a world of possibilities you’ve never imagined.
Sagittarius searches for a companion on every level and seeks their ideal of a true soul mate. They’re attracted to outgoing partners who radiate confidence and can stimulate their mind. Because of their intense thirst for knowledge, they love to share what they learned with a partner who is genuinely inquisitive.
Always remember to be patient and be able to swallow your pride with a Sagittarius. If they feel threatened in any way, they will do anything to defend what they believe and their stubbornness and sassiness will come out. Try to see their point of view and when all else fails, just suck it up and say sorry, even if it’s not your fault because there’s no way in Hell they’re going to be the ones to take the blame.
CAPRICORN IN LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS
+ SLOW TO COMMIT, BUT WORTH THE WAIT + VALUES SERIOUS COMMITMENT & IN IT FOR THE LONG HAUL + LOOKS FOR SOMEONE WHO WILL SUPPORT THEIR GOALS AND DREAMS + VERY CAREFUL WITH THEIR EMOTIONS & DON’T JUST THROW THEMSELVES AT ANYBODY + DOESN’T WANT TO SHARE & WANTS YOU ALL TO THEMSELVES
When it comes to love and relationships, Capricorns value serious commitment and are in it for the long haul, however many Capricorns choose to delay settling into a permanent relationship until they’ve got where they want to get professionally. They devote most of their youth to their careers and once they have succeeded, then they devote themselves toward love and family, so you must remain patient with them.
Although their serious self-presentation can seem cold and standoffish at first, they’re actually pretty playful and wild behind closed doors. They’re looking for someone that they can trust and open up to. Someone who can encourage them and push them forward, especially during times of depression. They also need to feel secure that their loved ones are loyal to them and sure that they have a partner that they can depend on.
They love hard and want you all to themselves, which can sometimes take you away from friends and family, but it’ll be worth it. They’ll make you feel so special and love you like no other.
AQUARIUS IN LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS
+ VALUES INDEPENDENCE & DOES NOT WANT TO FEEL TRAPPED + WILL GIVE YOU OWN FREEDOM AND PRIVACY & EXPECTS THE SAME FOR THEMSELVES + DESIRES STIMULATING CONVERSATIONS THAT KEEP THEM ENGAGED + NOT JUST LOOKING FOR LOVERS, BUT FOR BEST FRIENDS TOO + DRAWN TO THE MYSTERIOUS TYPE + NOT ALWAYS AWARE OF THEIR MAGNETIC CHARM & TEND TO LEAD PEOPLE ON WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING
When it comes to love and relationships, Aquarians value independence and it is imperative that they do not feel trapped. They will give you your own freedom and privacy just as they expect for themselves and desire stimulating conversations that keep them engaged.
They’re not looking for just lovers, but best friends too. They’re drawn to others that are different and someone to figure out – a mysterious type. Aquarians are very intellectual and love a good discussion, so be prepared for many long talks and a slow easing into partnership.
Aquarians are not always aware of their magnetic charm, so they tend to lead people on without even knowing. But try to remember that they’re naturally highly social creatures and only close and intimate with a limited amount of people. They don’t worry too much about other’s opinions and are very self-assured of their relationships. Always give them their space when they ask for it, keep things light and stimulating, and expect to be treated with a lot of generosity.
PISCES IN LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS
+ SOMETIMES HOT, SOMETIMES COLD + EXPECTS TO BE SWEPT OFF THEIR FEET WITH PASSION & ROMANCE + CAN READ BODY LANGUAGE LIKE NO OTHER + CRAVES A DEEP EMOTIONAL CONNECTION WITH THEIR SOULMATE + REQUIRES THEIR ALONE TIME TO RE-CHARGE, SO YOU HAVE TO RESPECT THEIR NEED TO ESCAPE & THEY WILL EVENTUALLY COME BACK TO YOU + HEAD WAY UP IN THE FUCKING CLOUDS
When it comes to love and relationships, Pisces value romance and fluidity. They have a strong need for equilibrium and balance in their life. They crave a deep emotional connection as they search for their soulmate. Pisces want partners who share their curiosity of what’s more than just the physical world and expect a lot of affection and care. Pisces are extremely compassionate, avoid arguments, and very intuitive – so don’t even try to fool them.
When loving a Pisces, be gentle and honest with them. This sign is very sensitive and tends to be selfless by putting their partners needs above their own, so their loyalty and devotion should be honored and cherished. Pisces have the ability to change their identity according to their surroundings, which can sometimes be destructive. Encourage independence to your Pisces partner and make them feel safe as they face the real world.
Pisces live in a world of dream and romance, so never fall short in the romance department because it is so important to them. Think outside the box when attracting a Pisces, as they are highly in tune with their creative expression and you are no exception to that. Pisces flow back and forth like water, sometimes hot and sometimes cold, and struggle with having conflicting emotions being pulled in both directions. Don’t take it personally. They know how to go with the flow and will eventually come back to you. Try your best to make sure to respect their need to escape once in a while for a bit of contemplation.
The new moon marks the beginning of a new lunar cycle and often brings with it an array of new beginnings. It is the perfect time for course correction, setting your intentions, & starting something new.
Repeat this affirmation in the mirror, in your morning meditation, throughout the day, before bed, or whenever you are setting your intentions.
NEW MOON RITUAL
01. PREPARE YOUR SACRED SPACE
Cleanse your sacred area with an opening prayer, a sage smudging, and/or burning some incense.
02. GROUND YOURSELF
Close your eyes. Notice each breath you take and relax your body. Just breathe.
03. JOURNAL
Release what’s on your mind. Don’t worry about what you’re writing, just write and let it flow out of you. Clear your heart and mind of anything negative or stressful so that you have can start off with a clean slate.
04. SET YOUR INTENTIONS
Write down your intentions of what you want to manifest. The clearer you are, the easier it is for your subconscious mind to begin creating it. What is it that you want to change about your life? Is there a goal or achievement you wish to reach or is there something you wish to let go of so you can be free and move forward?
05. CREATE YOUR MANTRA
A mantra is an affirmation that is repeated to one self for the purpose of motivation or encouragement. Create your personal mantra that supports your intentions that you can repeat to yourself in the mirror, in your morning meditation, throughout the day, or before bed until you transform your thoughts into reality.
06. VISUALIZE
Next, lay down on your bed or couch and close your eyes. Visualize in your mind your intentions you just manifested. Notice what you look like, where you are, how you feel, what the energy is like, what it smells like, how it sounds, etc. Acknowledge every single detail of what it looks like when your intentions come true.
07. CLOSING
New moon rituals have the power to recharge and recalibrate your energy. As we open to the possibilities of what is coming into our lives, this is a good time to offer thanks for all that has come in the last cycle and prepare your mind for what’s to come.
10 NEW MOON MANTRAS & AFFIRMATIONS
“I am reborn with this New Moon.”
“Tonight, my Soul will make room for all that is to come.”
“I am open to the new beginnings that are flowing to me. I embrace the changes that are coming into my life.”
“I am manifesting all the good that aligns with my soul purpose.”
“I have the power to shape my reality. I have the ability to manifest miracles. What I desire flows easily to me.”
“I trust the universe to guide me in the direction that is right for me. I am open to the mystery that this new beginning brings.”
“A change at home is just what I need to feel renewed and inspired.”
“I am attracting all the love I dream of and deserve.”
“I am now ready to start afresh and move forward on a new pathway.”
“I am willing to try new things. I am willing to make mistakes and grow. I only move in new directions with newfound wisdom.”
A curated list of personality traits for each zodiac sign.
ARIES PERSONALITY TRAITS + A FIERY MIX OF SENSITIVITY AND TOUGHNESS + WILL KEEP THEIR WALL UP UNTIL THEY ACTUALLY KNOW YOU + THEY LIVE BY THE ‘YOU LIVE AND YOU LEARN’ MOTTO + EXPECTS TO BE TRUSTED, ALWAYS AND WITH EVERYTHING + NEVER AFRAID OF A CHALLENGE + FUCKING BOSSY, BUT GETS SHIT DONE
TAURUS PERSONALITY TRAITS + VERY DANGEROUS WHEN PROVOKED + LIKES TO FIGURE THINGS OUT THEMSELVES + LIVES IN THE MOMENT + WILL BURY YOU IN SARCASM + ALWAYS FOLLOWS THROUGH AND STICKS TO THEIR WORD + HAS A BACKBONE MADE OF STEEL AND A HEART MADE OF GOLD
GEMINI PERSONALITY TRAITS + CAN READ ENERGY VERY WELL + NOT BIG ON SECOND CHANCES, SO DON’T FUCK UP + HARD HEADED-, BUT NOT HARD-HEARTED + SECRETLY ANALYZES THE DEEPER INTENT OF EVERYONE AROUND THE, + ALWAYS ON THE MOVE + LIKES TO STIR THE POT
CANCER PERSONALITY TRAITS + CAN ALWAYS SEE RIGHT THROUGH YOUR LIES + MOODY AF + WILL LOVE YOU TO THE END, NO MATTER WHAT + FAMILY OVER EVERYTHING + TRUSTS THE VIBES + 0 TO 100 REAL QUICK
LEO PERSONALITY TRAITS + ABSOLUTELY FEARLESS + BORN TO RULE + A STUBBORN LIL’ THING + DESIRES TO BE RECOGNIZED + EXTREMELY GENEROUS + STRAIGHT UP SAVAGE SOMETIMES
VIRGO PERSONALITY TRAITS + NATURAL BORN DETECTIVES + ALWAYS GIVES PEOPLE THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT + TENDS TO SUFFER IN SILENCE AND KEEP TO THEMSELVES + WILL ALWAYS HAVE YOUR BACK + DOES NOT LIKE TO BE TOLD WHAT TO DO + HIGH FUCKING STANDARDS
LIBRA PERSONALITY TRAITS + WILL ALWAYS KEEP IT 100% + LOYAL TO A FAULT + INDECISIVE AF + SPEAKS FLUENT SARCASM + TALKS THROUGH THEIR EYES + WILL BURY YOU WITH A SMILE
SCORPIO PERSONALITY TRAITS + CAN ALWAYS PLAY YOUR GAME BETTER + WILL FORGIVE YOU, BUT WILL NEVER FORGET + VERY SERIOUS ABOUT PROMISES + TENDS TO BE EXTREME IN EVERYTHING THEY DO + HAS AN UNPARALLELED INTUITION AND CAN’T BE LIED TO + LOYAL TO THE CORE
SAGITTARIUS PERSONALITY TRAITS + REALLY GOOD AT READING PEOPLE + FREE SPIRITED AND INDEPENDENT + WILL TELL IT HOW IT REALLY IS + DOES NOT TOLERATE BULLSHIT + POSITIVE THINKERS + THEY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT AND THEY WANT IT NOW
CAPRICORN PERSONALITY TRAITS + RESERVED WITH THEIR EMOTIONS, TAKES A WHILE FOR THEM TO TRULY OPEN UP + NATURAL BORN LEADER + PRETTY DAMN DETERMINED + WHEN IN DOUBT, WILL ALWAYS PROVE YOU WRONG + ALLERGIC TO BULLSHIT + WHEN THEY GET ATTACHED, THEY WON’T STOP LOVING YOU
AQUARIUS PERSONALITY TRAITS + VERY EMOTIONAL PEOPLE THAT ARE MASTERS AT KEEPING THEIR FEELINGS INSIDE + INDEPENDENT AND HAVE A MIND OF THEIR OWN + SEES BEAUTY IN IMPERFECTION + SUCKER FOR ADVENTURES + ALWAYS 2 STEPS AHEAD + SKILLED IN GIVING THE SILENT TREATMENT
PISCES PERSONALITY TRAITS + HAS ONE OF THE PUREST OF HEARTS + WILL HYPE YOU UP AND BE YOUR BIGGEST SUPPORTER + WON’T ALWAYS APPROVE OF WHAT YOU’RE DOING, BUT THEY WILL NEVER JUDGE YOU + ONCE THEY’RE FED UP, THEY WON’T COME BACK + CAN BE REALLY NEEDY AND REQUIRES A LOT OF ATTENTION, BUT ALSO LIKES THEIR SPACE + GETS EXTREMELY IRRITATED BY STUPIDITY
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